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Entri kali ini saya ingin berkongsi dengan anda tentang rahsia memotivasi isteri. Perkongsian kali ini bukanlah nak tunjuk saya ni pakar motivasi. Bukan! Jauh sekali! Tetapi apa yang saya dapat belajar dari rakan-rakan sekeliling tentang dorongan-dorongan positif yang boleh diberi kepada isteri kita.
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cited from Dato' Tuan Ibrahim bin Tuan Man (Official)Seekor kijang mengandung bakal melahirkan anak kijang. Ibu kijang tiba di sebuah tanah rumput tepi sungai di selatan… memikir bahawa itu satu kawasan selamat.
Perutnya mula sakit… tetiba langit mula mendung diikuti dengan petir… petir menyambar rumput kering di sebelah utara kijang –
kebakaran hutan berlaku. Di tepi baratnya, ibu kijang terkejut melihat seorang pemburu sedang mengacukan senapangnya ke arahnya… Ibu kijang bergerak ke sebelah timur, terlihat pula seekor harimau yang kelaparan sedang bergerak ke arah beliau.
Utara – api membara
Timur – si harimau kelaparan sedang ingin menerpa
Barat – si pemburu dengan senapang
Selatan – sungai yang deras…
Langit – mendung berpetir bakal hujan
Apakah yang bakal ibu kajang lakukan tatkala perutnya dah mula sakit untuk kelahiran…?
Utara – api membara
Timur – si harimau kelaparan sedang ingin menerpa
Barat – si pemburu dengan senapang
Selatan – sungai yang deras…
Langit – mendung berpetir bakal hujan
Apakah yang bakal ibu kajang lakukan tatkala perutnya dah mula sakit untuk kelahiran…?
Donald Trump
Donald Trump Biography (Donald John Trump) : Billionaire Real Estate Developer
Famous for : Being a famous New York real estate developer billionaire, starring on the hit reality show "The Apprentice", and the term "You're fired!"
Trump details : Born - USA June 14, 1946 Lives - USA
More Donald : Donald Trump Books - Trump University - Ivanka Trump - Ivana Trump Quotes - Donald Trump Rosie O'Donnell Controversy business leaders and entrepreneurs
Biography - Information
Donald Trump owns some of the most prestigious pieces of prime real estate in New York City. Trump has slapped his Trump brand name on some of the finest hotels, casinos and building complexes in the city.
Donald Trump was born in New York on the 14th of June 1946. His father Fred Trump was a successful property developer that helped form the young Donald's business sense. Donald acknowledged his father's influence by stating that “My father was my mentor, and I learned a tremendous amount about every aspect of the construction industry from him.”.
Trump began his career in his family's real estate business after studying at the Wharton Business School. He worked with his father for five years and was extremely successful in making profitable deals. His father commented on his son's business success by stating that "everything he seems to touch turns to gold".
After gaining the necessary business skills in real estate from his father, Donald Trump moved into the Manhattan real estate scene. He went on to acquire some of the most exclusive properties in the city. Trump Casino, Trump International Hotel, Trump Marina Hotel and Casino, Trump Taj Mahal Casino Resort and Trump Tower are among his prestigious portfolio of real estate properties.
Trump brands his properties with the Trump name displayed prominently. They all have the Trump name in their titles and often have large "T" symbols placed all over the important areas of the building. Through his properties and business dealings he has developed a celebrity personality and often appears in gossip columns, television programs and magazines.
Donald Trump starred in his own reality TV program in 2004. The Apprentice program is a selection of candidates competing against each other in the area of business to ultimately become Donald Trump's apprentice. The program was watched by millions of viewers each week and was wildly successful. Each participant to be eliminated was given the now famous "you're fired" sentence. The series was a hit and has gone on to be one of the more popular reality programs each year.
"I mean, there's no arguing. There is no anything. There is no beating around the bush. "You're fired" is a very strong term." Donald Trump
Trump is a self confident and extravagant businessman that has made himself instantly recognizable wherever he goes. His interests include real estate, entertainment, gaming, and sports. Trump also owns part of the three largest beauty competitions in the world, consisting of Miss Universe, Miss USA and Miss Teen USA. He is also a successful author with several best selling business books published that include The Art of the Deal, The Art of Survival and How to get Rich. Among his many other pursuits, Donald Trump was briefly interested in running for President, is a member of several civic and charitable organizations and is a generous philanthropist.
In 2005 Donald Trump started the Trump University that teaches business students online. The courses available are focused on real estate investing, being a successful entrepreneur, business management, and career success.
Towards the end of 2006 Donald Trump was criticized by the co-host of "The View" Rosie O'Donnell. It created a lot of media attention, with Rosie and Trump verbally attacking each other very publicly. See more about the Donald Trump and Rosie O'Donnell issue.
For his services to the entertainment industry with the success of his reality program, The Apprentice, Donald Trump received a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. Trump attended the ceremony with his model wife Melania and his son Barron Trump in January 2007.
Donald Trump Biography (Donald John Trump) : Billionaire Real Estate Developer
Famous for : Being a famous New York real estate developer billionaire, starring on the hit reality show "The Apprentice", and the term "You're fired!"
Trump details : Born - USA June 14, 1946 Lives - USA
More Donald : Donald Trump Books - Trump University - Ivanka Trump - Ivana Trump Quotes - Donald Trump Rosie O'Donnell Controversy business leaders and entrepreneurs
Biography - Information
Donald Trump owns some of the most prestigious pieces of prime real estate in New York City. Trump has slapped his Trump brand name on some of the finest hotels, casinos and building complexes in the city.
Donald Trump was born in New York on the 14th of June 1946. His father Fred Trump was a successful property developer that helped form the young Donald's business sense. Donald acknowledged his father's influence by stating that “My father was my mentor, and I learned a tremendous amount about every aspect of the construction industry from him.”.
Trump began his career in his family's real estate business after studying at the Wharton Business School. He worked with his father for five years and was extremely successful in making profitable deals. His father commented on his son's business success by stating that "everything he seems to touch turns to gold".
After gaining the necessary business skills in real estate from his father, Donald Trump moved into the Manhattan real estate scene. He went on to acquire some of the most exclusive properties in the city. Trump Casino, Trump International Hotel, Trump Marina Hotel and Casino, Trump Taj Mahal Casino Resort and Trump Tower are among his prestigious portfolio of real estate properties.
Trump brands his properties with the Trump name displayed prominently. They all have the Trump name in their titles and often have large "T" symbols placed all over the important areas of the building. Through his properties and business dealings he has developed a celebrity personality and often appears in gossip columns, television programs and magazines.
Donald Trump starred in his own reality TV program in 2004. The Apprentice program is a selection of candidates competing against each other in the area of business to ultimately become Donald Trump's apprentice. The program was watched by millions of viewers each week and was wildly successful. Each participant to be eliminated was given the now famous "you're fired" sentence. The series was a hit and has gone on to be one of the more popular reality programs each year.
"I mean, there's no arguing. There is no anything. There is no beating around the bush. "You're fired" is a very strong term." Donald Trump
Trump is a self confident and extravagant businessman that has made himself instantly recognizable wherever he goes. His interests include real estate, entertainment, gaming, and sports. Trump also owns part of the three largest beauty competitions in the world, consisting of Miss Universe, Miss USA and Miss Teen USA. He is also a successful author with several best selling business books published that include The Art of the Deal, The Art of Survival and How to get Rich. Among his many other pursuits, Donald Trump was briefly interested in running for President, is a member of several civic and charitable organizations and is a generous philanthropist.
In 2005 Donald Trump started the Trump University that teaches business students online. The courses available are focused on real estate investing, being a successful entrepreneur, business management, and career success.
Towards the end of 2006 Donald Trump was criticized by the co-host of "The View" Rosie O'Donnell. It created a lot of media attention, with Rosie and Trump verbally attacking each other very publicly. See more about the Donald Trump and Rosie O'Donnell issue.
For his services to the entertainment industry with the success of his reality program, The Apprentice, Donald Trump received a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. Trump attended the ceremony with his model wife Melania and his son Barron Trump in January 2007.
On May 25, 2001, Erik Weihenmayer became the only blind man in history to reach the summit of the world's highest peak - Mount Everest. On August 20, 2008, when he stood on top of Carstenz Pyramid, the tallest peak in Austral-Asia, Weihenmayer completed his quest to climb the Seven Summits - the highest mountains on each of the seven continents. Erik is joined by fewer than 100 mountaineers who have accomplished this feat. Additionally, he has scaled El Capitan, a 3300-foot overhanging granite monolith in Yosemite; Lhosar, a 3000-foot ice waterfall in the himalayas; and a difficult and rarely climbed rock face on 17,000-foot Mt. Kenya
In September, 2003, Erik joined 320 stellar athletes from 17 countries to compete in the Primal Quest, the richest and toughest multi-sport adventure race in the world: 457 miles through the Sierra Nevada's, nine days, sixty thousand feet of elevation gain, and no time-outs. Averaging only two hours of sleep a night, Erik and his team surged past the finish line on Lake Tahoe, becoming one of the 42 teams to cross the finish line out of the 80 teams that began.
After Erik's Mt. Everest ascent, Braille Without Borders, a school for the blind in Tibet, invited him to teach its students mountaineering and rock climbing. His many climbs gave the teenagers the courage to excel in a culture which affords few opportunities for the blind. Erik and six Everest team members went to Tibet in May 2004 to train the students, then in October led them on a climb to the Rombuk Glacier on the north side of Mt. Everest. Once seen as pariahs, the teenagers ultimately stood together at 21,500-feet., higher than any team of blind people in history. Steven Haft, producer of such blockbusters as Dead Poets' Society, made a documentary on the ascent which opened to standing ovations at the Toronto, L.A., and London Film Festivals. The film will be released theatrically in spring of 2007.
A former middle school teacher and wrestling coach, Erik is one of the most exciting and well-known athletes in the world. Despite losing his vision at the age of 13, Erik has become an accomplished mountain climber, paraglider, and skier, who has never let his blindness interfere with his passion for an exhilarating and fulfilling life. Erik's feats have earned him an ESPY award, recognition by Time Magazine for one of the greatest sporting achievements of 2001, induction into the National Wrestling Hall of Fame, an ARETE Award for the superlative athletic performance of the year, the Helen Keller Lifetime Achievement award, Nike's Casey Martin Award, and the Freedom Foundation's Free Spirit Award. He has also carried the Olympic Torch for both the Summer and Winter Games.
In addition to being a world-class athlete, Erik is also the author of the book, Touch the Top of the World, published in ten countries and six languages. According to Publisher's Weekly, Erik's memoir is "moving and adventure packed, Weihenmayer tells his extraordinary story with humor, honesty and vivid detail, and his fortitude and enthusiasm are deeply inspiring." The book was made into a feature film which aired on A&E in June, 2006.
Erik's second book, The Adversity Advantage: Turning Everyday Struggles Into Everyday Greatness, co-authored with business guru and best selling author, Dr. Paul Stoltz, was released by Simon and Schuster in January, 2007. Through Paul's science and Erik's experience, The book shares seven "summits" for harnessing the power of adversity and turning it into the never-ending fuel to growth and innovation. Steven Covey, author of the best selling business book of all time, wrote the Foreword. Erik has also been published in Time, Forbes, and Reader's Digest.
Erik's award winning film, Farther Than the Eye Can See, shot in the same stunning quality HDTV format as the 'Star Wars' prequels, was ranked in the top twenty adventure films of all time by Men's Journal. Bringing home first prize at 19 film festivals and nominated for two Emmy's, the film beautifully captures the emotion, humor and drama of Erik's historic ascent as well as his team's three other remarkable 'firsts': the first American father/son team to summit, the oldest man to summit, and the most people from one team to reach the top of Everest in a single day. Through screenings, the film has raised over $600,000 for charitable organizations.
Erik's extraordinary accomplishments have gained him abundant press coverage including repeated visits to NBC's Today Show and Nightly News, Oprah, Good Morning America, Nightline, and the Tonight Show to name a few. He has also been featured on the cover of Time, Outside, and Climbing Magazine.
In 1999, Erik joined Mark Wellman - the first paraplegic to climb the 3000-foot face of El Capitan, and Hugh Herr - a double-leg-amputee and scientist at Harvard's prestigious prosthetics Laboratory, to climb an 800-foot rock tower in Moab, Utah. As a result of their successful climb together, the three formed No Barriers, a non-profit organization with a goal of promoting innovative ideas, approaches, and assistive technologies which help people with disabilities push through their own personal barriers to live full and active lives. Erik also serves as a National Braille Literacy Champion on behalf of the American Foundation for the Blind.
Erik's speaking career has taken him around the world, from Hong Kong to Switzerland, from Thailand to the 2005 APEC Summit in Chile. He speaks to audiences on harnessing the power of adversity, the importance of a "rope team," and the daily struggle to pursue your dreams. Clearly, Erik's accomplishments show that one does not have to have perfect eyesight to have extraordinary vision.
Program 5S adalah usaha keseluruhan organisasi bagi menjadikan tempat kerja bersih, tersusun, bersistem dan lebih produktif. Melalui amalan 5S, kita akan membina disiplin dan etika kerja yang baik di kalangan warga kerja yang akan menghasilkan prestasi kerja yang lebih baik, kerja berkualiti, memupuk semangat berpasukan dan tolong-menolong yang tinggi. 5S ialah lima perkataan Jepun iaitu Seiri, Seiton, Seiso, Seiketsu dan Shisuke. Amalan 5S meliputi pengetahuan teknikal, praktikal, logik untuk menghasilkan teknik yang paling berkesan bagi mewujudkan budaya peningkatan secara berterusan atau dikenali sebagai Kaizen dalam Bahasa Jepun.
Objektif Utama Program 5S
· Memberi kesedaran tentang kepentingan dan faedah pelaksanaan Program Amalan 5S.
· Membina budaya Kaizen di tempat kerja.
· Membina kerjasama melalui penyertaan semua.
· Membina amalan kepimpinan pengurus dan penyelia.
Langkah-langkah Pelaksanaan 5S
Langkah Pertama - Mengamalkan Seiri (Sisih)
· Kenalpasti dan mengasingkan barang yang tidak perlu untuk pelupusan dan merekod (jika perlu).
· Melakukan aktiviti sisih secara berterusan mengikut keperluan.
Langkah Kedua - Mengamalkan Seiton (Susun)
· Menyusun dan menyimpan barang dengan kemas supaya mudah diambil dan disimpan semula.
· Tempat simpanan boleh diambil oleh semua kakitangan di tempat yang mudah dilihat dan dikesan.
· Barang atau dokumen yang kerap digunakan diletak dekat/berhampiran dengan tempat yang mudah dicapai.
· Semua barang dan tempatnya mesti ditunjuk dengan label yang jelas.
· Gunakan warna label bagi mendapatkan keceriaan.
Langkah Ketiga - Melaksanakan Seiso (Sapu)
· Bentuk tugas pencucian dan mengemas mengikut kumpulan.
· Amalkan Seiso 5-10 minit setiap hari.
· Patuhi jadual mencuci dan memeriksa peralatan dan keselamatan bagi menwujudkan tempat kerja yang selesa dan selamat.
· Mempamerkan peta kawasan pembersihan dan tugasan.
· Menggabungkan aktiviti sapu,kilatkan, semak dan betulkan.
· Buat dengan kerjasama semua kakitangan.
· Galakkan kawan sekerja memberi idea kreatif untuk penambahbaikan tempat kerja yang produktif.
· Anjurkan gotong royong 2 kali setahun.
Langkah Keempat - Melaksanakan Seiketsu (Seragam)
· Bila mengulangi tiga konsep di atas iaitu Sisih-Susun-Sapu,tempat kerja akan menjadi bersih dan tersusun.
· Melihat kepada perkara-perkara yang tidak normal atau ''abnormality".
· Peraturan yang boleh dipatuhi oleh semua kakitangan diwujudkan.
Langkah Kelima - Mengamalkan Shitsuke (Sentiasa Amal)
· Mematuhi setiap peraturan, standard, peringatan yang diwujudkan.
· Latihan dan perkongsian berterusan.
· Wujudkan semangat berpasukan.
Socializing is an important part of life. It’s healthy to meet many people who like your presence. The good news is that it’s possible to make yourself likable. After all, becoming popular is a learnable skill. Here are 8 ways to make people like you:
1. Being caring
Showing concern for people around you shows that you are a human being who radiates warmth, comfort, and love. People love to be cared for, but not many are willing to give love in this harsh reality. You should be the one to do so.
A bit of caring can mean a lot to someone. You can care by doing simple things like asking about your friend’s work progress, your neighbour’s family, and your spouse’s feelings. Remember, small things count a lot in relationship.
People don’t care about you until you care about them.
People don’t care about you until you care about them.
2. Praising others
People who always praise themselves in front of others are frown upon. However, if we reverse the inward self praising to outward compliment giving, things change. People have subtle ego that yearn for recognition subconsciously. By genuinely praising others, we are putting them in the limelight and make them feel good. And they will eventually come to you. That’s how you can become charismatic and popular.
Everyone quietly wishes for attention and recognition.
Everyone quietly wishes for attention and recognition.
3. Being generous
Observe around carefully. Cats and dogs like people who give them food. Resource is scarce in life. If we are willing to share it with others, we attract people. We have to give generously in quantity and quality so that the receivers are totally happy with us. Treating friends to a horrible restaurant is not recommended, but buying a box of fine chocolate for someone is highly encouraged. Be generous, but give others according to your means and ability.
There’s a giver and a taker – who do you prefer to go out with?
4. Being helpful
Being generous is a good way to make others like you when time is good. However, when time is bad and people face hardship, giving others a hand and lifting some burden off people’s shoulders is praise worthy. It’s like giving a glass of cold water to a thirsty stranger in desert. People will feel good and grateful for your liberating act. Help others as much as you can, and you’ll gain the solid reputation as a kind person. People will love you.
When you are drowning, a helping hand is worth much more than a pot of gold.
5. Smiling
A smiling person is like an open door that welcomes people in. Smiling is a non-verbal message that says you are non-threatening, approachable, and welcoming others for a conversation. It loosens people up and keeps the atmosphere relaxed. By contrast, people tend to feel suspicious and stay on guard with those who seldom smile, as if they have unwelcoming sharp fangs that bite people.
Always keep a genuine, relaxed smile on your face to tell others that you are approachable. People will like to come near you.
The popular ice cream man always smiles at the children.
6. Being entertaining
People naturally like to laugh. So it’s good if you can bring the “feel good” factor to people by being entertaining. Having a sense of humour gives you the advantage to keep others laughing out loud. And for sure, they will come to you for more jokes (or else they will die from their boring life, figuratively speaking). However, never overdo it until you become the laughing stock. It’s silly for people to laugh not with you, but at you.
It’s cool to have entertaining skills like singing and dancing (that’s why many popular celebrities are singers). When you can sing and dance, people will definitely invite you out for karaoke and disco. You won’t drop out from any invitation, since you can spice up social events. That’s one good reason for you to enrol in salsa classes.
Laughing is the peak of life.
7. Being hygienic
Although having good hygiene alone won’t really make you popular, NOT having it is disastrous to your social life. Horrible body odour strongly repels people. If you smell like rotten meat, people around you will pinch their noses and run to the toilet for a vomiting session, even if you can tell good jokes and dance like a pro. Keep your body clean and odourless by bathing and mouth rinsing daily. You might not want to wear the same clothes without washing for one month during hot days.
If you want people to like you, it’s essential to be hygienic.
Don’t be a pair of smelly socks.
8. Being successful
Success is the magnet of attention. Magazines feature successful businessmen, football fans worship winning football clubs, and movie fans tightly follow top celebrities. Even strangers whom you don’t know will come to you to shake your hands and ask for autograph when you are successful.
This way of making people like you is rare but powerful. You need to put a lot of effort, learn a lot, and possibly get some luck, to reach this level. Once you achieve your success, the rest is history. So I think it’s worth to strive for success, even if the road ahead is very steep.
Winner takes all.
Kalaulah Allah lihatkan amalan kita. Berapa banyak dosa. Berapa banyak pahala??
Kalaulah dosa itu macam batu. Berapa berat perlu kita angkat?
Kalaulah pahala itu bagai duit. Berapa banyak boleh simpan dalam akaun??
Kalaulah nafsu itu punya bentuk dan rupa, dan syaitan ada di sebelah kita dalam wajah tersendiri.
Adakah kita akan berkawan dengan mereka? atau takut dan memusuhi mereka? atau kita tetap jadi lagi teruk dari syaitan.. (tetap sama seperti biasa kita buat)
Kalaulah, Muhammad hidup bersama kita.
Adakah kita layan baginda selayaknya sebagai seorang nabi.
Malu berbuat dosa depan mata banyak nya bertimbun-timbun.
Malu dengan syirik dan khurafat yang kita buat.
Malu sebab tinggalkan risalah baginda.
Malu bergaduh sesama Islam padahal kita dah tahu kita saudara.
Hanya sebab kuasa,ideologi dan harta.
Pada hal dah tahu tak bawak ke manapun harta berlambak sedunia!!
Pada hal dah tahu pegangan kita sama!!
Pada hal dah tahu pangkat dan jawatan tak mampu membeli ampunan dari Tuhan!!
Kalaulah kita nampak syurga dan neraka.
Tempat dan rupa nya bagaimana? Apa ada dalam syurga?
Apa isi dalam neraka?
Dan setiap Ahmad,Abdullah dan ar-rijal dicop dia munafiq, kufur, islam atau beriman...
Masihkah aku dan kau lari dari tanggungan amalan..
Masihkah kita berdalih dan beralasan??
Kalaulah Allah menampak kan wajahNya pada kita masihkah kita sanggup syirikkan dia? Agungkan cinta manusia lagi tinggi dari cinta Dia!!
Berkalau-kalau tu amalan syaitan.. tapi "kalau" yang ini aku tulis untuk keluarkan kau,aku dan dia dari terus teruk daripada syaitan.
CINTA itu adalah satu anugerah terindah,
CINTA itu cuma satu patah perkataan,maknaya berbeza bg setiap insan.
Ramai org pandai mengucapkan dan menghayati cinta,
tapi tidak ada sesiapa yang pandai menilai cinta,
kerana CINTA bknnya objek yg boleh di lihat dgn mata kasar,
sebaliknya cinta hanya boleh ditilik melalui hati & perasaan..
CINTA itu sememangnya indah,
tapi,
apabila cinta itu disertai dgn dusta dan pembohongan,
hilang lenyaplah keindahan cinta itu..
CINTA tdk blh dipaksa,
nantikan kehadirannya dgn sabar..
CINTA dtg pd saat yg tak terduga,
jgn lari dari cinta,
kerana,
cinta itu indah..
CINTA TIDAK HARUS MEMILIKI??
CINTA sgt misteri,
punya kekuatan yg sgt luar biasa,
bukan utk difahami,
tp dirasa.
CINTA adalah menyintai dan dicintai..
oleh insan yg ditakdirkan utk kita.
hanya ssat kita merasakan cinta,
kita akan tahu APA ITU CINTA..
CINTA bkn dari kata kata,
tapi dari segumpal keinginan yg diberi kpd hati,
yg memerlukan...
1) DOA YANG BERTERUSAN
2) PATUH PADA AJARAN AGAMA
3) MURAH DGN PUJIAN
4) MURAH DGN KHIDMAT
5) MURAH DGN BELAIAN KASIH SAYANG
6) MURAH DGN SENTUHAN
7) MENCARI KEBAIKAN PASANGAN
8) CARI MASA BERKOMUNIKASI,BERBUAL @BERGURAU SENDA
9) CARI KEBAIKAN DAN PEMBAIKIAN DIRI DRP SETIAP PERTENGKARAN
10) MENGHORMSTI HAD,SEMPADAN ATAU HAL PERIBADI PASANGAN
11) MENILAI DIRI PERSPEKTIF PASANGAN
12) BERFIKIRAN TERBUKA-BOLEH TEGUR MENEGUR
13) BERANI MENGAMBIL RISIKO EMOSI-TEGUR/PERUBAHAN/BERPISAH SEMENTARA
14) MENILAI DAN MEMBERI KEUTAMAAN DLM KEHIDUPAN
15) TOLAK ANSUR
16) MENGHORMATI DAN MENGAMBIL KIRA GERAK BATIN ( INTUITION)PEREMPUAN
17) TIDAK MENGEJAR KEBENDAAN SEMATA
18) SEDAR BHAWA PERSELISIHAN TDK DPT DIELAKKAN
19) MENGUBAH DIRI UTK MERANGSANG PERUBAHAN PSGAN
20) SANGGUP BERKORBAN BUAT PASANGAN
21) MENGHORMATI PASANGAN
22) BERASA AMAT BERUNTUNG( DAN NYATAKAN) MNDAPAT PSGAN YG ADA
23) PERHUBUNGAN SEKSUAL YG SIHAT DAN DIREDHAI
24) MENGHORMATI PERBEZAAN DLM DIRI PSGAN
25)SENTIASA BERMAAFAN SEBELUM TDOR
26) SENTIASA BERSANGKA BAIK DGN MASA DEPAN
27)MELETAKKAN HAK KPD PASANGAN
28)TIDAK MENJADI HAMBA KPD PASANGAN
29) BERUBAH SECARA KECIL-KECILAN UTK MENINGKATKAN KEBAHAGIAAN
30) MENGAWAL MARAH (BUAT PERJANJIAN)
31)MENCARI PENYELESAIAN DLM SITUASI 'MENANG-MENANG'
33)MENGHORMATI SIFAT SEMULAJADI PASANGAN
34)MEMAHAMI 'PERANAN' PASANGAN
35)HUBUNGAN PERASAAN SESAMA PASANGAN
36)JGN SIMPAN KETIDAKPUASAN,SEDIH,MARAH @BENCI DLM HATI
37)BENTUK KOD KASIH SYG DAN ANDA BERDUA SHJ YG TAHU
38)SENGAJA MERANCANG UTK MEMBAIKI HBGAN SUAMI ISTERI
39)TUJUH KALI PUJI DAN 1 TEGURAN
40) SEBUT 'I LOVE U' SEPANJANG MASA
41)BANYAKKAN BERGURAU DAN BERMESRA
42)SENTIASA BERTERUS TERANG
43)BERI MASA UTK PERUBAHAN BERLAKU-SABAR
44)ELAKKAN BERDEBAT UTK MENCARI KEBENARAN
45)ELAKKAN SALAH PASANGAN
46)CARI TITIK PERTEMUAN
47)SELESAIKAN MASALAH HARI INI PD HARI INI JUGA
48)LEBIH BYK MEMBERI DRP MENERIMA
49)MINTA NASIHAT,MAKLUMBALAS DRP PASANGAN
50)SENTIASA BERSEMANGAT
51)SEIMBANGKAN HBGAN DR SEGI:
- MENTAL,PENDIDIKAN DAN ILMU
- EMOSI
- FIZIKAL DAN EKONOMI
- SOSIAL
- SPIRITUAL
52)JGN BERJAUHAN TERLALU LAMA(KECUALI TERPAKSA)
53)TIDAK TERLALU MENGONGKONG
54)TIDAK BERTINDAK SENDIRIAN
55)MEMBERI PELUANG UTK BERBEZA:
- PENDAPAT @PANDANGAN
- HOBI
- KEGEMARAN
- MAKANAN
- CITARASA
- WARNA PILIHAN DAN PELBAGAI
56) HUMOR @LAWAK DR SEMASA KE SEMASA
57)MINTA BANTUAN UTK MEMECAHKAN KITARAN NEGATIF
58)BERWAWASAN DAN PANDANG KE HADAPAN
59)TIDAK MEMINTA YG BUKAN2
60)BENTUK UNDANG2 ATAU PERATURAN DLM RUMATANGGA
61)MENCARI KELAINAN DAN PERUBAHAN POSITIF
62)ELAKKAN MENDERA PASANGAN DGN APA JUA SEKALIPUN
63)REDHA,SYUKUR DAN TAWAKKAL KPD ALLAH
"Someday," you say, "I'm going to get my health back on track, after this next project," or "when I get back from my cruise," or "when the kids get a little older" ... C'mon, you know your list of reasons -- or what I call EXCUSES -- better than I.
Take a look at each area, determine how you stack up, and then make the fix today:
1) Stealing from sleep: Studies show that a minimum of seven to nine hours of uninterrupted sleep (at night) are essential for health. Sleep is the time when your body repairs and recovers from all of the metabolic processes that your body performs every second. Sleep supports healthy weight management, raises growth hormone, and heals the adrenals. If you are watching TV, working on your PC, or otherwise stimulating yourself so that you are unable to go to sleep by 11 PM, then establish the Power Down Hour and turn to more relaxing activities like baths, light novels, or cuddling with a loved one (or pet!) at least an hour or two before bedtime. Then ... retrain yourself to sleep through the night.
2) Skipping breakfast: How many times do you find yourself dashing out the door to start your day, only to discover that you forgot to eat? Listen, your body has just "fasted" overnight, and in order to fuel yourself for the day (and lower stress hormones), you must eat a balanced meal that includes proteins, fats, and carbohydrates. Otherwise, your body will turn on itself for fuel, and it isn't fat but muscle that it's going to target ... which will cascade into a very nasty sequence of health consequences that will make you fat, old, and tired before your time.
3) Blowing off exercise: If you think you can manage your health and weight through dietary means alone, it won't work. Period. Exercise is crucial for stimulating proper physical and hormonal response necessary for building muscle and bone, burning fat, letting you sleep, keeping you young, giving you energy -- the list is endless. More important is the CORRECT type of exercise, which involves high-intensity interval training, along with resistance workouts. If you can't find 20-30 minutes a day to incorporate these exercises into your life (oh yeah, that is ALL you need, by the way), then you can kiss your health goodbye.
4) Noshing at night: Strapping on the feedbag in the evenings basically signals your body to hold off on burning existing fat stores, raises stress hormones before bedtime, and screws up your body's natural digestive processes at a time when it should be ready to shut down and repair. If you are eating in a hormonally-balanced way during your evening meal, there is absolutely no need to munch afterward.
5) Not counting your beverages: One of the craziest things I encounter in my work is the lack of consideration of high-calorie, high-sugar drinks in the diet. Yes, those healthy "Jumbo Juices," designer coffee slurpees (hey, they may as well be, given all the sugar in them), and those harmless little cocktails every night, especially those fruit-flavored martini and tequila drinks, can really pack on the pounds in a hurry. Make the switch to healthier options like iced green tea -- or, my favorite, Emergen-C -- for some sparkling mineral replacements that not only satisfy, but also fuel and nourish!
PASSION stands for
P = “Purpose”
Your whole reason for being in business can be thought of as your purpose. Are you in business for the fame, fortune or helping people? Whatever it is your purpose is what keeps you getting up each morning even when all your effort seems to produce no results currently.Great businesses have great purpose.Having a financial purpose , spiritual and social purpose will make GREAT Purpose in your business.
A = “Attitude”
Michael Gerber (the author of The E-Myth) has a saying: ‘The fish stinks from the head down’. Your own attitude to your business reflects on everything from the way you treat you staff (which dictates how they treat your business) through to how you treat your customers and suppliers. Remember: Positive attitude equals positive results.Attitude determine your result in business. Mindset + Attitude = Result. Work on your mindset and your attitude will follows. Reading , sharing , learning from others will shape your mindset and attitude towards your business.
S = “Service”
Provide outstanding service and your existing customers will talk about you to their own business associates. Nothing is more powerful in marketing than third party endorsement. It has been always the service that been provided by a certain business will be the talk of the town.Sometimes it beats the product itself, What i mean is even your product is same or average with others , customers will come to you again because of the service. If you want your customer come back to you and tell others about you and your business that provide THAT outstanding service.
S = “Sow”
Have you ever heard the term “you reap what you sow”? As the business owner you always need to keep learning and implementing what you have learned to your business. Never think for a second that you can rest on your current successes as failure always appears to the person who thinks that there business needs no more improvement.Meeting new people, explore new markets, networking are all activities that can be useful in future. Have you come across situation like you get orders that you never thought long after meeting certain people.It happen to AbangAbu many times and that what keeps me sowing many seeds that AbangAbu believe will be beneficial later.
I = “Incentive”
Keep the incentives flowing to help fuel your passion. Your incentives could be financial but also the benefit you give to your staff and customers.Incentive can be also in the form of recognitions, points and lucky draws.From your staffs , customers and suppliers will supports you and will be loyal to you if you can give them the incentives that they looking for.
O = “Ownership”
The success and failure of your business is up to you. You have no one else to blame for any mistakes you made. Own-up to all mistakes you make and then move forward. Staff and customers always have great respect for business owners who take responsibility for their actions.Some business owners go extra mile by taking responsibilities for any mistake that made by their staffs as well. Giving a certain level of responsibilities to your staff will make them take ownership in the business.
N = ‘”Never Give Up”
I cannot count how many books I have read on successful entrepreneurs who never gave up on their dreams and ultimately succeeded where others gave up. If you truly believe in what you are doing then your belief will help shape your future success.As an entreprenuer AbangAbu believes that the word “GIVE UP” never exist in entrepreneurs dictionary.
AbangAbu truly believe by applying this PASSION in your business will make your business grow and keep growing in any condition.
- Orang yang menuntut dan mencari ilmu kerana ilmu semata mata.Dia seronok, mabuk dan asyik dengan ilmu. Mabuk ilmu hingga yang ada tidak mahu kahwin kahwin, kerana katanya belum puas belajar. Ini adalah golongan yang mabuk ilmu.
- Orang yang mencari ilmu kerana bercita hendak dapat jawatan tinggi saperti mufti dan bergaji besar. Dengan ilmu juga dia boleh berniaga dan jadi kaya dan mendapat banyak harta. Ini lah golongan yang menggunakan ilmu untuk meraih kekayaan.
- Ada orang mencari ilmu kerana bercita cita menjadi pemimpin. Seorang yang jadi pemimpin mesti berilmu. Ini adalah golongan yang menggunakan ilmu untuk menjadi pemimpin.
- Ada juga orang yang mencari ilmu kerana hendak kan glamour. Agar orang kata dia intelek. Inilah golongan ahli ilmu yang tujuan nya hendak dapat nama.
- Ada orang belajar ilmu kerana hendak keluar daripada kejahilan dan kebodohan. Agar dia tidak di pandang hina. Inilah golongan yang mendapatkan ilmu supaya diri tidak terhina.
- Ada orang menuntut ilmu kerana ingin membangun dan maju demi kedaulatan dan kemegahan bangsa dan negara. Agar jangan bangsa nya mundur dan terhina. Ini lah golongan ilmuan yang berfahaman nasionalisme.
- Ada orang yang menuntut ilmu kerana perintah Allah. Juga dengan tujuan agar dapat amal ilmu supaya boleh mengabdikan dan mendekatkan diri kepada Allah. Golongan ini menggunakan ilmu untuk membangunkan Islam dalam berbagai bagai aspek saperti ekonomi, pertanian, bangunan, sekolah, jalan raya, pembangunan insan dan lain lain. Ini adalah dengan tujuan agar dapat melindungi iman, memperkuatkan syariat, membesarkan syiar Islam dan mendaulatkan hukum hukum Tuhan. Ini lah dia golongan ilmuan yang bertaqwa.
HARI KIAMAT akan SEGERA TIBA dan batu bintang akan terbit, AL QURAN akan hilang
dan matahari akan dekat diatas kepala, saat itulah manusia akan panik".
Itulah akibat dari kelakuan mereka yang selalu menuruti HAWA NAFSU dalam jiwa.
Dan Barangsiapa yang menyebarkan ayat ini kepada teman-teman atau Masyarakat
Islam sekitarnya..
"SEBARKANLAH AJARANKU WALAU SATU AYAT PUN" (Sabda Rasulullah S.A.W)
"Nescaya ALLAH S.W.T memperbaiki bagimu amalan-amalanmu dan mengampuni bagimu
dosa-dosamu. Dan barangsiapa mentaati ALLAH S.W.T dan Rasul-Nya, maka
sesungguhnya ia telah mendapat kemenangan yang besar." (Surah Al-Ahzab:71)
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Aneh ya, ketika seseorang yang kita sayangi memanggil kita, serta-merta kita
datang untuk penuhi panggilannya. .. Tapi ketika ALLAH memanggil kita (azan),
biasanya kita akan malas dengan alasan waktunya masih panjang. Heran ya..
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Assalamu 'alaikum, Kubur itu gelap, cahayanya ialah "Laa Ilaaha IllalLah".
Jika diletakkan langit dan bumi di sebelah dacing, dan kalimah ini di sebelah
yang satu lagi, pasti lebih berat lagi nilai kalimah 'Laa ilaaha illalLah' ini.
Rasulullah saw. Bersabda (mafhumnya): "Wahai manusia! Ucaplah 'Laa ilaaha
illalLah', kamu pasti berjaya!"
Marilah kita ucapkan kalimah ini: "Laa ilaaha illallah!" supaya ianya menjadi
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mengalir bersama arus aliran darah dan degupan jantung kita.
Panjangkan dan fowardkan post ini kepada seramai mungkin saudara, sahabat,
kenalan seislam dengan anda........ .
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